Bang Bang

Before you start any journey you better get rid of all the heavy load you've accumulated over the years. It's the type of toxic concepts the society feeds us with to weigh us down and keep us at their feet. They tell you that you can't always have what you want, that you've got to be realistic, that you should just deal with it, life is not meant to be easy, it takes money to make money, there isn't enough to go around, stop dreaming, without school you are nobody, you don't have what it takes, money is the root of all evil (not money but the love of money)…

We are here to expose all the bull they've been throwing at you. What you do, you blow away all those loony ideas and know the truth is just the opposite. Exactly because of such off-beat ideas more than 97% of people are in chains, thinking those lies are true. To avoid the struggles of folks who have their hands full just getting through the day is to avoid their beliefs.  Don't take that mass conceptions for real. Do whatever it takes, give them concepts one finger salute, put them in your pipe and smoke it or whatever. They won't bite the dust on their own; you need to wipe them out - bang bang. Sometimes the best way to eliminate the harmful thoughts is to replace them with the benign ones. Truth wins every time. If those concepts are deep in the subconscious, the best way to deal with them is through repetition of affirmations, a.k.a. auto-suggestions or auto-hypnosis. There are heaps of other techniques like hypnotherapy, Sedona method, NLP and EFT, which all you can dig on the web or best at the Talidari's art pharmacy, from the Crime cure page.




from 'Matrix':

You have to let it all go, Neo. Fear, doubt, and disbelief. Free your mind.







Countermeasures - Empowering affirmations:

I know I can have what I want
I know I can be anything I want to be
To have an ideal life, I've got to be idealistic
I don't have to deal with it
life is meant to be easy
it takes idea to make money
there is enough to go around
Keep dreaming
school doesn't define me
I have what it takes to be … fill in the blank
Or whatever counters the limiting beliefs you have been bombarded with.




The losers will definitely try to put you down for it, for not subscribing to their limiting beliefs, but you know what, screw them. One thing's for sure, you won't do any time for it. On the other hand, the winners will acknowledge you for joining the club - Skywalkers' club, where sky is the limit. It takes a certain person to have courage to stand up against the whole world, that's why there are not so many sitting behind the pearly gates.

In addition to canceling those bullying concepts, you better put on a bully-proof vest (Link coming soon) too, to prevent them bullies to blow out your flame.

The best is to burn your bridges behind you too, so that you don't have a comfort of choice to fall back on. There is a dynamite tool to fix that at Talidari's (Link coming soon) if you ever need a help in that department.


"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me."



standing out from the rest


If you want what you’ve never had
you must do what you’ve never done.

'Cause if you do what you’ve always done,
you’ll get what you’ve always got.


All in all you're NOT just another brick in the wall


Get this: people struggle in life because they live their lives mostly reacting to what is going on around them, rather than acting original, being spectators rather than players, objects rather than subjects; focusing on effects rather than on the causes. And the way out of struggle is to get the hell out of the world of effects, and dip into the realm of cause, of the source. Once for all move from the world of reactions to the world of actions, from being a creature of circumstances to being a creator of circumstances.

You are not here just to fill the space, neither are you a background character in someone else's movie. Despite what roles others want you to play, you are no less than a star in the story of your life. Decide whether you want to play second fiddle or be a hero or villain on your own ship. There is ultimate power in that decision because decisions shape destiny.

In our view, nothing is denied to you but what you deny to yourself, and you are in control of your own destiny - create it rather than await it to unfold. Wait no longer to see how the dice would fall. In other words, predict your future by simply inventing it. There will always be small-minded people trying to deny you rights, trying to disable you to outshine them, but then again it is entirely up to you whether you allow them to take control of you or not. As long as you don’t let them steal your soul, you'll stay on top of things.


George Bernard Shaw said,
"Life isn't about finding yourself.
It's about creating yourself.
It's never too late to be
what you might have been."


Now comes the hard part. We are here to ruffle your feathers a bit by saying this: You have no idea how much you stand in the way of your own prosperity. You and yourself. More often than not you let pirates hijack your vessel. Those faulty emotional & mental traits, they are your pirates. They are like ethereal creatures that creep into us and rob us off our valuables. Your real assets are in your heart and mind. But they get nicked by a ghostly gang every time you  blow a fuse or get high on booze.
When you get real with yourself, you will sure enough come clean about standing in your own way. Only then you can prevent the pirates of the fourth dimension to gang up on you again. In the old days one could see his enemies.

If you plan on getting better results in your life, you obviously need to do something better than you've been doing so far. Stick to your current beliefs, and nothing will change. This is a call to your personal reform - your own Renaissance. Are you ready to meet a new version of you, the futuristic You, with all your potentials unzipped and no worries in the world?

We know you are able to manifest things you want because you have been able to manifest already the things you didn’t want. It's all about making a shift in your head, taking the blinders off.

There are countless stories of folks who had it much worse than you but had it made anyway. There is comfort in believing in their lucky star, but at the end of the day what counts is truth, not what one falsely believes.

When it comes to one's own misfortunes, it's common to lay it at someone else's door, play the blame game. Pin it on whomever you want, but it won't get you far. At the end of the day it is you who are in charge or not. While you point a finger one way, other fingers are pointing right back at you. There's no denying it, your hot temper and foul thoughts must have put you in a jam numerous times. No matter how you put it, bad thoughts can never produce good results and good thoughts can never produce bad results. It's a cosmic law. You can't plant the seeds of, say, weed and expect to reap apples, right? Every time you let yourself come undone, you put a bullet in your head. Hold your fire.

Just before you get that look on your face, let's assure you this is just the chain reaction, but now that you are getting in command and you are there with the goods, all ready to be a creator of prime action, you instantly become the creator of prime reaction. Meaning, just as you somehow set stage to getting what you didn't want, now you can set stage to getting what you want. How? Doing the opposite in most cases. It's that simple.

About finding faults anywhere but home, let us illustrate the point. What happens when someone squeezes an orange? Out comes orange juice, right? Right. Why? Because it’s an orange. When someone squeezes (pressures) you, if out comes anger it’s not because of the person who does it to you, or what technology they use to do it. It has to do with what’s inside you. Show us what you are really made of.
All foam, no beer? Hope not.


The lotus flower grows up out of mud to form exquisite blooms – showing us that it's possible to transcend impure origins

In order to achieve something you never achieved before you have to become someone you have never been before


Rocky (IV):
I guess what I'm trying to say is, if I can change,
and you can change, everybody can change


While you point a finger at someone, other three fingers are pointing right back at you



Diamond - before and after cutting & polishing


Miyagi: Now use head for something other than target.
Daniel: When do I learn how to punch?
Miyagi: Better learn balance. Balance is key. Balance good, karate good. Everything good. Balance bad, better pack up, go home. Understand?

Cutting a diamond

A kilo of diamonds is worth thousand times more than a kilo of gold. What tips the scales and defines its worth is its brilliance and durability, which in turn are determined by how is diamond cut. The proportions of width and depth have a large impact on diamond brilliance, in the same metaphorical way they have an impact on human brilliance. Polish and symmetry (smoothness and alignment of the facets) are two important aspects of the cut. Diamond's character is a result of a cutting & polishing process, just like with humans. What is symmetry to diamonds, to us is balance. Balance of all our facets - body, mind and heart. Soul is meant to balance our physical, mental and emotional qualities. For soul to be able to do that it has to be allowed to be a master. Giving too much power to intellect, or getting carried away with hot temper, or putting too much weight on body's functions prevents your soul to manifest itself.
If you don't shine just yet it's because you're a diamond in the rough. Your brilliant sparkle doesn't come through if any of those 3 aspects of your being are in disproportion to the other two. There is a process to make a raw material into a real gem. That's where refining falls into play. It's done through reprogramming your mind, mind acupuncture, subconscious cleansing, releasing resistance, owning your emotions, heart's artistic pacemaker, body-unbuilding workout, faith-lift, fine tuning to your soul, and expanding your limitations (Links coming soon), to name a few.

They all come down to digging in your depth and widening your horizons. They amount to building of a character, to say the least. Our almighty minds can impair us or repair us, bring us down or bring us up. The choice is ours, only ours. You can let others shape you by default or you can do it yourself; it's still your choice. We can choose to be bitter or better, a victim or a victor.





If your life is not as it should be, there is a simple reason for it: you are not in sync with the nature, with the universe. In other words, you are disconnected from the source of your power.

Ever saw a branch detached from its tree growing fruit? Didn't think so. The same, we too can't blossom as long as we are separate from our soul. On the surface, we might get loaded, but it won't take us to the Promised Land. Some aspect of life might seem to boom, but not for long. Anyway, what's the use if one aspect is doing well, when all others are not in order. What’s it to ya having all the wealth in the world, when a cancer is eating you from inside or love turned back on you. No, you've got to have it all, and this is your way to do it - polish up all the sides of your being so that light can shine through you and make you brilliant.

If you are anything like a regular rebel then one thing's for sure, you are rough around the edges.
You know what your problem is? You are too strong. Need to get your edges smoother. Brush up your act. I believe 'refinement' is the word. Do it with class. Style is a killer. Punch them with it. It ain't hip to bark and bite. You got to use the gloves now.
There is a lesson you might learn from samurais:


The greatest Samurai warrior in Japan was Musashi Miyamoto. You can check his story out in an epic trilogy 'Samurai' by legendary Japanese film director Hiroshi Inagaki.  (watch it for free here).

In the second part subnamed 'Duel at Ichijoji Temple' he learns a great lesson from a priest that witnessed his duel. Priest was not at all impressed. Their lines go like this:

Musashi: You mean I’m a poor fencer?
Priest Nikkan: Definitely.
Musashi: But I won the duel.
Priest Nikkan: Of course you won the fight but you lost as samurai.
Musashi:  I won there too. I'm not even scratched. I'll show you.
Priest Nikkan: (laughs) You seem to trust your skill very much. You are really strong, but you’re not mentally relaxed. That means you may win in a match, but you are not yet a true samurai. You’ll always remain just a tough man.
Musashi: Your Grace, teach me further.
Priest Nikkan: All I can tell you is this: You are too strong. Understand Musashi, swordsmanship means chivalry. Remember: a man cannot forever remain physically strong.







If 'swordsmanship means chivalry' is fossil lingo to you, then take it like this: fighting is about acting heroic and with dignity, not about barbarism. Tough is too plain, you've got to go for sharp, be there with the goods. What the priest meant is that a true samurai is equally strong on all three accounts: physical skills, mental calmness and emotional state.

Musashi was passionate and physically powerful, but lacking sophistication and composure.  His quest was not only to improve his fighting skill, but to break away from the inner beast by learning self-discipline and virtuousness.



Master Jet Li: The highest level of martial arts is about conflict resolution and being at peace with all things



For to win hundred victories in hundred battles is not the best of skill. To subdue the enemy without fighting is the best of skill.  Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting. The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. - general Sun Tzu



In another great film, a Chinese one - 'Hero' - there is an ultimate lesson for all born-to-be-wilders out there, the lesson engaging on multiple levels. It reveals the highest ideal of a swordsman: first triumph is to achieve the unity of the man and his sword. When that is reached even a blade of grass can be used as weapon. The second triumph is to have the sword in heart but not in hand. Then even with bare hands one can take on an enemy. But the highest ideal of a swordsman is to have the sword out of both, hand and heart. Then the swordsman is finally at peace with the world, with no need to use the sword.

This three-step guide for mastering the highest ideal of martial arts is a draft that applies to any type of conflict situations and dealing with rivals we all face constantly in life. Confrontations on social scene,  campaigns in corporate arenas and  encounters in romantic courts are no different to crossing swords on battlefields. Victors always follow the same ranks:

  1. Once a fighter is one with his weapon he can use anything as means to win. A rose can become a great weapon then. Most fighters stay at this puberty stage all their lives. We know them as amateurs.
  2. However, when a fighter is ready to upgrade then he doesn't need the weapon in his hand anymore, for his heart becomes one. Martial heart is the weapon then. Such an advanced practitioner can stop a fight before it even begins, because he beams in such a way that others fear him and dare not confront him. Drawing swords is rarely an option.
  3. But the ultimate breakthrough for the heavyweight champs is the absence of weapon in both heart and hand. Fighter fights no more, since he's at peace with all. Such a hero doesn't need to resort to violence to solve problems. He finally lays down his arms and wins adoration and respect through his appeal and higher powers, which he gained through self-mastery. He use them to excel in the business arena. His professional skill is tied to his former fighting skill.

An episode from 'Karate Kid':

Daniel: Hey - you ever get into fights when you were a kid?
Miyagi: Huh - plenty.
Daniel: Yeah, but it wasn't like the problem I have, right?
Miyagi: Why? Fighting fighting. Same same.
Daniel: Yeah, but you knew karate.
Miyagi: Someone always know more.
Daniel: You mean there were times when you were scared to fight?
Miyagi: Always scare. Miyagi hate fighting.
Daniel: Yeah, but you like karate.
Miyagi: So?
Daniel: So, karate's fighting. You train to fight.
Miyagi: That what you think?
Daniel: [pondering] No.
Miyagi: Then why train?
Daniel: [thinks] So I won't have to fight.
Miyagi: [laughs] Miyagi have hope for you.

Take Mohammad Ali, for example. Rather than slip a punch, the traditional defensive move, it was his habit to sway back, bending at the waist — a tactic that appalled the experts. It just goes to show, you don't need to kick to defend yourself. There is always a more genius thing to do than waste a punch. That's why he'll go down in history for bringing beauty and grace to the most uncompromising of sports. And here is a real example how to put a giant down: Ali's girlfriend disclosed that the first time he was kissed, he fainted. It took a kiss to knock him out, not a punch, a kiss. Go figure.

Mohammad Ali



Victor's secret

We all know Victoria has a secret and we love it, but victor has a secret too. In this chapter we unfold The Way of the Victor

On the word of the makers of 'Hero' as well as of the makers of non-fictional heroes and of the acemakers, a real victory is achieved through self-mastery. The way to master others is to master oneself.

In fighting the adversaries or winning the competition there is a Code of Conduct leading to ultimate victory and it boils down to the following tenants:

  • Finesse is superior to force. Using force is off limits, as long as genius  is onboard.
  • Acemen are beyond menace. The pursue of a victor-to-be is not to kick ass in order to win. The big idea behind any challenge is neither to beat the competitors nor to fill the own pockets, but to improve the standards of performance, which, of course, leads to improved living standards. Think bigger picture.
  • An amateur competes with others, whereas a professional competes only with himself.
  • Big scene scenarios should be avoided at all times
  • Showing off leads to falling off. Bragging is begging. A hotshot needs not to beg for attention. Blowing your own trumpet suggests there is no one else to blow it for you.
  • One who knows when he can fight and when he cannot, will be victorious
  • Who dares, wins
  • Who persists, wins
  • A duel to be won must be won before the duel
  • Having no rivals means doing nothing extraordinary. Welcome the opposition as sign of breaking new grounds. Novel ideas and practices that are a challenge to convention must face the resistance from those taking comfort from conventional standards.
  • Know your enemy, know your real enemy. Shooting the messenger brings nothing.
  • All rivalry is to be met with distraction, diversion, confusion. Trick them into thinking you are not there where you really are, not that what you really are, not such as you really are and don't have what you really have. Ambush them when and where they are not expecting.
  • The easiest thing is to harm; the genius thing is to charm. Fascinate the enemy into surrender.
  • The true mastery is to turn a foe into a fan
  • For one to win, the other party doesn't need to lose. The premier match is the one where both parties come out as winners, each winning something out of it. Let the opponent gain something great and you win his respect. Also, if you are losing, win at least respect by losing gracefully. There is a lesson to be won in every failure.
  • You don't need to be the best, you need to be great. Or at least better than yesterday. There is more than enough for anybody. To win the lion's share of the rewards, no need to outshine others. Make others shine and you'll be fine.
  • If you are a deer-hunter, don’t waste your arrows on shooting rabbits
  • Use the stones, which others put on your path, to build yourself a palace
  • A bad samurai always blames his sword


Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win. - general Sun Tzu


Rocky: I can't do it.
Adrian: What?
Rocky: I can't beat him.
Adrian: Apollo?
Rocky: Yeah. I been out there walkin' around, thinkin'. I mean, who am I kiddin'? I ain't even in the guy's league.
Adrian: What are we gonna do?
Rocky: I don't know.
Adrian: You worked so hard.
Rocky: Yeah, that don't matter. 'Cause I was nobody before.
Adrian: Don't say that.
Rocky: Ah come on, Adrian, it's true. I was nobody. But that don't matter either, you know? 'Cause I was thinkin', it really don't matter if I lose this fight. It really don't matter if this guy opens my head, either. 'Cause all I wanna do is go the distance. Nobody's ever gone the distance with Creed, and if I can go that distance, you see, and that bell rings and I'm still standin', I'm gonna know for the first time in my life, see, that I weren't just another bum from the neighborhood.

Rocky: You gotta be a moron   . you gotta be a *moron* to wanna be a fighter.

Apollo Creed to Rocky: If you stand toe-to-toe with this bum, he'll kill you. It doesn't take a man to stand there and get your head beat off...! He's just a man, Rock, so be MORE man than him! Go get him; Eye Of the Tiger!

Clubber Lang's manager: [to Clubber] Don't go wasting your punches! He's gotta come to you; you're the Champ! Don't try to take him out with one punch! Use your head; wear him down!

Proximo: Listen to me. Learn from me. I was not the best because I killed quickly. I was the best because the crowd loved me. Win the crowd and you will win your freedom.
Maximus Decimus Meridius: I am required to kill, so I kill. That is enough.
Proximo: That's enough for the provinces, but not enough for Rome.



This is the art of fight without a fight. To win a winner there can't be any loss for anyone involved. As said from the beginning, new times bring new rules, so what was up it's now down, and what was in now is out. Whatever was good enough for our fathers ain't good enough for us. The bar         is raised and keeps raising. What was good enough to get us here, won’t be good enough to keep us here. The trends are changing too fast, so must we.

Safe thing now is to risk, to go out on a limb, because that is where the finest fruits are. To go all the way up is to challenge the old ways. To challenge convention we need to resort to unconventional means. The Way of the Warrior is so out of date. Get a new hat.

Who needs to shed blood and get dirty when we have more sophisticated means nowadays. To dominate or captivate others at this time and age is to shed tears, not blood - the tears of joy. The way to make them pay is to make them gay. Use fun as gun.  You please, they grease. You give them reason to be gay, you give them reason to pay. The numbers are up, when the spirits are up. They want more, you score.

bruce lee

Enter the Dragon:
Lee: My style, you can call the art of fighting without fighting.
Parsons: The art of fighting without fighting? Show me some of it.
Lee: Later.



The Karate Kid, Part II (1986):
Daniel: You could have killed him, couldn't you?
Mr. Miyagi: Aiy.
Daniel: Well, Why didn't you?
Mr. Miyagi: Because Daniel, for man with no forgive-ness in heart, life worse punishment than death.

The Godfather: Part III (1990):
Michael Corleone: Never hate your enemies. It affects your judgment.
Michael Corleone: Never let anyone know what you are thinking.


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Spelling out the best alternative to living on the edge

After all is said and done, once you put the book down, you need specific tools to set up a system that works for you. You'll get blood from a stone before you get it all done by yourself. That's why you need to outsource the connoisseurs to make your life easier.

A powerbroker is sometimes all you need to get your big break. It can provide you with a team that lifts you up and take a whole lot of work off your hands. A powerbroker is a gray eminence, behind-the-scenes operator that put you on a throne. There are kingmakers and there are acemakers.

Whatever you specialize on, make sure you bring it online. Stay on top of trends to bring your new business ahead, or old one to the next level. And the top trend now is online business or online store. That's your best alternative to living on the edge. The easiest and cheapest way to get yourself off the hook, clear your name and make a bundle is to use the world wide web to market yourself to a broad audience. As a player on a global scale, sky is the limit; you have the world in your palm.

When you are doing business online, you have a chance to have multiple streams of income that earn you money beyond your own product or service. You have a chance to do it from your bedroom, if you like, from the beach, top of the hill, on board of a cruiser or wherever. You can become a millionaire dressed in no less than your pajama, or swimming trunks or whatever wear suits you. Also you have a chance to set an auto-pilot system to take care of most work. Your website can be your best employee, make money for you once you set it right. There are powerbroker firms that do all that for you and we'll introduce you to the best in a minute. You don't have to be an expert nor have any computer skills, because it will be all done for you, after you state your general wishes. And it costs you next to nothing, something in a range of less than a dollar per a day. That includes all your online needs, like your website domain registration, hosting - running it on the web, designing the website, taking care of most graphics needed for your site, search engine optimization so that the world can easy find you, send traffic to your website, do advertising for you, set your e-mail accounts, track the best keywords related to your field, do statistics for you, protect the system against spam and viruses, credit card processing, consultations and so on. Can you imagine having all that at the highest quality for under a dollar a day, it's unbelievable!!! It's a turn-on!


Just to give you an idea of what we mean by multiple streams of income via your website and what an online powerbroker can set up for you, here are some examples of automated income generators:

  1. Your main product or service
  2. Affiliate programs - find partner companies that suit you, then place their links on your website to get a commission on their sales.
  3. Advertising (f.e. Google Adsense) - you get paid every time your visitors click certain links on your website
  4. Opening a virtual bookstore – sell special reports and books related to the theme of your website
  5. Selling tools for the internet business - products, services, and information that it took you to get into the swing of things in your online business
  6. Memberships - enrol members to pay monthly fee for a service you provide on a monthly basis, like actual up-to-date scoops on the latest things in your field, or discounts on sets of new products...
  7. Opening an outpost - Place your products or service on other online platforms in your field, make them available on other online stores to earn extra, like e-Bay or other specialized e-shops. See it as your branch offices.

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Troy (2004):

May the Gods keep the wolves in the hills and the women in our beds.

Curtains down

Here we are, at the exit. As artists all we can do is point you the way out. We can't make the actual venture for you. This privilege stays with you, the privilege to take the adventure of a fresh start, of turning a new page in your life.

There is much more to this journey and we'd be glad to share it with you. There is a follow up, which is all about action. It's called 'The Jump In Action' and it's packed with practical tips on where to go from here. Here is a peek into it:

  • In the 'Game on' chapter we explain the game for you, every step of the way. We announce the prize, explain the game, give you out the players in your team, expose the players of the contra-team, introduce you to the best coach in the world who you can use cost-free, and show you how to bribe the judge legit way.
  • But the game is not the best part; the 'Pregame Routine' is where we train you to win the game. You get all the practice material on how to pump up your muscles, use your gun and the gizmos.

The workout sessions are a variety show of: shakedown, rehearsal and warm-up. The exercise regime provides options such as:

  • Tuning (the Way of the Soul)
  • Harry Potter approach (the Way of the Heart)
  • Entering the Hall of Mirrors (the Way of the Mind)
  • Prayers
  • Vision boards - Treasure Map

All of this is yours by clicking on the next page

Final call
This is it.
The trumpets are out playing your song.
The heat is on.
Reality doesn’t get realer than this.
Great moments are born from great opportunities. And that's what you have here now - a great opportunity, boys and girls.
This is your time to win because you can!
You were born to be players and you were born to be winners
- every one of ya.
And you were meant to be here where you are.
Here is the place and now is the time.
We are sick and tired of hearin' about
what others can do better than us.
Now you can too. 'Cause you know how.
There is always one more inch you can do.
Put your best foot forward and take that inch.
Give it your best shot.
Show us what you're made of, what you're all about.
Show your stuff.
Turn up the heat.
This is your time!! Time to get back your innocence.
The world is yours for the taking.
Now go out there and take it!
Let the good times roll!

What have you got to lose?

May Force be with you!
High five,




Troy (2004):

And so we ask ourselves: will our actions echo across centuries? Will strangers hear our names long after we are gone, and wonder who we were, how bravely we fought, how fiercely we loved?



Neo: I know you're out there. I can feel you now. I know that you're afraid... You're afraid of change. I don't know the future. I didn't come here to tell you how this is going to end. I came here to tell how it's going to begin. I'm going to show these people ... a world where anything is possible. Where we go from there is a choice I leave to you.

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